I started to realize that I was once just an impressionable kid who was heavily influenced by the adults around me. Adults that were wrong.
And right there is the moral of the story.
Children getting baptised at 11 to impress their parents, who in turn use it to impress others.
Getting advice from elders or their wives about the importance of pioneering, who stopped pioneering years before and have their own businesses.
Elders telling you about the dangers of university and they send all of their own kids there anyway.
If there are any younger ones reading this, remember that just because your parents happen to believe something, it doesn't make it true. You will be the one to pay for your mortgage or rent and put food on your table, no one else. Picture your life 40 years from now. How do you want it to be?